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Sex toys have been around for centuries in one form or another. They can be fun and sensual and enhance your sex life. Sex toys are to be used together or alone by both men & women. With this guide we hope to show you that today there is more to sex toys than seedy sex shops & hen night novelties, they are well designed, stylish and functional, aiming to help you get the most out of your sex life.
Vibrators are probably the most popular type of sex toy. For the woman, they are probably the easiest & most effective way of reaching orgasm. When held over the clitoral area they vibrate the thousands of nerve endings which are in the clitoris and create an intense wave of orgasm. They can also be used on other parts of the body such as the nipples to prolong the experience and excite the body even more. However, vibrators are not just for women, men can use them too. A vibrator held or rubbed over the mans genitals, nipples or anus can create a powerful and intense orgasm.The vibrator can be used by a couple on each other to add more to their sex play - vibrators are not just for the solo experience.
These days, vibrators come in a wide variety of designs and styles. The traditional 'slimline' or 'rocket' syle is generally made from hard plastic and is lower priced than some of the more multi-functioning designs. They can be used for internal or external masturbation. The most popular vibrator today is the Rabbit Vibrator. These have an external clitoral vibrator and a rotating shaft which fits internally. The shaft contains small pearls which when rotating cause pleasurable vibrations inside the vagina and surrounding area. Realistic vibrators are also very popular. With the look and feel of a real penis, this can also be an arousal in itself. There are many other vibrators available from the ultra quiet Silencer Vibrator to the designer Natural Contours range. More recently, silicone vibrators have been very popular due to their soft velvety feel.
Dildos are non-vibrating sex toys which are generally used for vaginal or anal penetration. They can be used by both men and women, together or alone. Dildos come in a range of different sizes and can be used for vaginal or anal play. Although vibrators are more effective at creating the right sensations for orgasm, some women (and men) prefer the penetration aspect. Dildos are also good for prolonging sex - if the man reaches orgasm too soon and the woman still needs the feel of penetration for orgasm, a dildo is ideal to maintain that feeling. Dildos are also great for experimenting on your own with different kinds of penetration, especially anal. Alone with your dildo you can take things as far as you want to in as much time as you need. Always use lubrication with a dildo.
When sharing a dildo, it is always best to use a condom to be changed each time it is used on a different person. This means that no STDs will be passed and keeps it hygenic & safe. You can also clean it if sharing but this will interrupt sex play and can sometimes the kill the mood. After use, always clean your dildo. This way, it will always be ready for the next time you use it - remember, your vagina is a sensitive place so anything that goes into it should be clean and fresh. Never use a dildo on your anus then vagina without washing it first (or without changing condoms). You never know what bacteria might be lurking around. Also try & store your dildo where dust cannot settle on it. The best thing to do is to keep it in a special toy bag or wrap it in a clean fresh handkerchief or clingfilm.
Unfortunately, anal sex is still somewhat of a taboo. But it can be very arousing and great fun so some people are trying to change traditional opinions of this sex practice. Therefore there is an increase of anal sex toys available today. Anal sex toys are designed to be inserted into the anus or to stimulate the densely grouped nerve endings around the anus. Some couples have never experimented with anal toys, some do periodically and still others include some kind of anal play in every sexual encounter. Most newcomers will find that with an open mind, relaxation, time and communication, anal sex toys can greatly enhance their lovemaking.
Anal toys can be used by both men & women. A popular misconception is that anal toys are only for gay men - nothing could be further from the truth. Men are the ones that usually do the penetrating. Anal penetration allows them to experience that very satisfying feeling of fullness and penetration. Some men find anal penetration exciting because it stimulates the prostate.
Some people consider anal sex to be unhealthy & unnatural. It is neither. It can be just as satisfying & fun as normal intercourse. Some people even prefer it to normal intercourse. If sharing anal toys, always make sure you clean them before the other person uses them. The best way is to use a condom on your sex toy & put on a fresh one when it's your partners turn.
Anal toys come in the form of vibrators, dildos, plugs and beads.
Traditionally, sex toys have been aimed at the female market but more recently there has been an increase in sex toys for men. With sex becoming less taboo, it is not seen as so unusual for sex toys for men to be incorporated into bedroom play between couples. Some toys such as the Magnering are designed for the pleasure for both men & women by making the erection harder whilst vibrating and srimulating the clit at the same time.
By far the most popular toys specifically designed for men are erection rings. They restrict the flow of blood from the penis, creating a pleasurable feeling of tightness and pressure, prolonging the erection and delaying ejaculation.While these toys are usually worn at the base of the penis behind the scrotum, some men prefer wearing erection rings around the base of their penises alone. Others enjoy wearing separate rings around their penis and scrotum. Some people find it easiest to put on a erection ring while their penises are erect and others prefer putting on erections rings while their members are still flaccid. It really depends the wearer's personal preference; you should experiment to find what works best for you.
Penis pumps are vacuum/suction devices used for drawing the blood into the penis, creating an erection—often of a more engorged size than usual. These toys don't have any kind of permanent lengthening effect, but the temporary effect can be quite exciting for both partners. Also, as blood rushing to the penis is usually a good thing, the stimulation produced by penis pumps can be very satisfying.
The penis extension is a hollow, penis-shaped dildo which fits over a man's own penis. Some models resemble real penises; others are a little more stylized.
Masturbation sleeves or realistic vaginas are extremely popular with men. Made to simulate intercourse with a partner, masturbators are simple to use: just insert your penis into the soft, warm interior and do what comes naturally. They come in a variety of materials including cyberskin, silicone, plastic or latex. Masturbators also come in a variety of shapes and designs but most resemble a vagina or anus. They require lubricant and cleaning to remain fresh and effective for any length of time.
And of course there is the old favourite, the inflatable doll. These have long been the staple novelty of the stag night but a little more investigation can show you that the development of these dolls has come a long way since the comedy blow up hole mouth doll of yesteryear. These days inflatable dolls are still available in a variety of styles and prices ranging from the standard to the more realistic doll. There are now latex dolls available with a much more realistic look and feel. Some have vibrating orifices and suction holes for maximum arousal.
When people think of bondage, they often think of painful scenarios where someone is tied up & beaten. This is not the case. The main idea behind bondage is that there is a dominant & a submissive party. This idea alone can be very exciting & stimulating. There are various levels of bondage which go from being very fun & playful to much more extreme. To those interested in the lighter side of bondage, handcuffs and a light whip or suede flogger are a great start. Bondage does not have to be painful or dangerous, it can be soft and exciting with the idea of it creating the biggest turn on.
Lubricant is a fundemental accessory to the use of sex toys. When inserting a dildo or vibrator, using lubricant will ease and aid the insertion making it not only more pleasurable and comfortable but also safer, especially when used with anal insertions where the skin is thinner. There are a variety of lubes available from those designed especially for women, to those designed for anal sex. When using sex toys such as dildos & vibrators, it is recommended that you always use a lube because womens own lubrication is not enough - there is a danger that you will feel sore for days. Also, some materials will absorb your natural lubrication. The application of lube can itself be an erotic experience. Apply with the fingers to the toy, the penis or the surrounding areas and inside if the vagina. Lubes can also be flavoured for extra enjoyment.